On this site I often post a humorous slant to the gender facet of relationships. My intent has been to offer a momentary smile or grin to a topic that plays such an important role in each of our lives, specifically, the opposite sex and why we find that difference so rewarding and frustrating at [...]

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About two or three times a year I have these epiphanies about men, women, human interaction, relationships, etc. Several years ago, I had another light bulb incident dealing with the changing of the male guard. Now, I know the ladies may disagree with this observation, but as a man it’s my view. I think the [...]

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On the loops and chats where I participate as an author, I notice reference to female erotica. I know what is erotic to a man. Watch a porn flick and you get the idea. But what is erotic to a woman? And is the reading of erotica for the same purpose men watch porn? I’ve [...]

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Today my wife decided it was an “us” day (translation – she had places she wanted me to take her), On the forth stop, we went to a furniture store. We have nursed our couch for about 18 years and its finally gone south. So, I sold some equipment for a grand and that should [...]

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When I was a young boy my dad was into hunting and fishing and took me with him on many occasions. By the time I hit my twenties, his interest had shifted to golf but I was already hooked. Since then, my two favorite sports have remained hunting and fishing. I think what I like [...]

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What pulls a man to the ladies, latches onto his heart and makes him lose all control offer his logical mind? What specifically attracts us to the opposite gender and why is it relevant to writing fiction with a romantic slate? Would it be a surprise that much of the romantic elements in a fiction [...]

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Guys do talk about women, no not just how hot they are, but the good and the not so good. One recurring “drives me crazy” theme is how they sometimes treat their mates like little boys. I’ve watched it, I’ve experienced it. Maybe it’s a hold over from their maternal instincts, but when a small [...]

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I was sitting at a local gathering hole where I live when a young friend I hadn’t seen since he got married plopped down across from me. We exchanged the usual pleasantries and I asked, “So how’s the new wife?” He replied, “She’s great, just great.” But his face did not match the intent in [...]

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After three decades of marriage, I’ve concluded that men suffer from what I call “Moth to the flame” syndrome. Even though we’ve been burned by the fire, we always come back again What do I mean? I have been sent out on a hundred assignments by my boss, and every single time I screw up, [...]

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Is there anyone out in web world past the age of 25 that hasn’t recognized men and women communicate differently? In the early days of interactions with my life mate, I actually thought my main squeeze did her confusing way of communication to drive me crazy. After about ten years, it finally hit me. She [...]

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