One of the things Big Mike keeps talking about is how a man’s role is to be the “dragon slayer” for a woman.
I take exception to this because not every woman has a dragon that needs to be slain. There are many of us who are perfectly self-sufficient. For many years, I lived in a [...]

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I was having a discussion recently with a wonderful lady friend I met in church. She told me about how the time she tried to describe a key difference between men and women to our Pastor. After listening to her explanation, I thought it made a lot of sense. So with great thanks to Sheryl [...]

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I was sitting at a local gathering hole where I live when a young friend I hadn’t seen since he got married plopped down across from me. We exchanged the usual pleasantries and I asked, “So how’s the new wife?” He replied, “She’s great, just great.” But his face did not match the intent in [...]

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Big Mike did it to me again.
He made me realize just how different our minds think, and the difference in our writing styles.
I sent out a blanket email asking for help with a tag line for my next Champagne Books release in October, FULL THROTTLE. I included a blurb about the book to give everyone [...]

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After three decades of marriage, I’ve concluded that men suffer from what I call “Moth to the flame” syndrome. Even though we’ve been burned by the fire, we always come back again What do I mean? I have been sent out on a hundred assignments by my boss, and every single time I screw up, [...]

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OK, before I present my “tag post” let me just say, this is a perfect example of gender differences. Since I entered into the female dominated world of romantic suspense, I have been amazed at the scope and depth of the sisterhood network. Now don’t get me wrong. I said that to Candace once and [...]

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You need to read Candace’s post on this subject first for this response to make sense.
Believe it or not, when I posted a reply to Candace’s post, I expected her response. Then why do it? Because when she and I agreed to do this blog, our supposition was that we truly wanted to explore gender [...]

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So… Big Mike and I are going to talk about are the differences between men and women from time to time.
“Why?” you may ask.
I tell you, writing a book with a man was a real eye-opener. I can only hope that if you ever get the opportunity to read what we wrote as a joint [...]

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