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	<title>Big Mike Little Candy &#187; personal experience</title>
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		<title>Scumbags</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 22:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There's a lot of scumbags out there in the world. Not all men are as chivalrous as Big Mike. If you've had a similar experience to Little Candy, please share it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So Big Mike and I were talking on the phone the other day about our current collaboration, tentatively titled <em>Whispers of Innocence</em>. I wrote a scene with a character who was less than, shall we say, nice. Actually, he was a total scumbag who was giving our heroine a hard time in a donut shop.The heroine is rather amply endowed and I had the bad guy making comments about her breasts in a very explicit, crude and sexist fashion.</p>
<p>Big Mike took exception to the guy&#8217;s comments because he didn&#8217;t think it was realistic. Now maybe it&#8217;s because Mike was raised as a Southern gentleman and I was raised around men in an auto parts store, but we had a slight difference of opinion. Big Mike contends that the hero would never have stood by while this dialogue was going on, even if the woman was a complete stranger. Alas, but not all men are as chivalrous.</p>
<p>I can think of several instances where I&#8217;ve encountered a real jackass. I&#8217;ve had an ex-boyfriend slash my tires and throw a knife into the headlights on my beloved Chevy Camaro Berlinetta while I watched. In a previous post, I related how a manager of mine in the auto parts store pounded his fist on the counter mere inches from my face. I&#8217;ve been the target of many a raised fist (that luckily never made contact due to the man&#8217;s better judgment kicking in at the last minute). I&#8217;ve head crude comments when I was walking down the street, such as &#8220;Hey honey! Looking good! Want to come for a ride with me?&#8221; I&#8217;ve seen rude hand gestures, heard smoochy noises, and been subjected to unwanted touching and groping.</p>
<p>In none of these cases did some knight in shining armor come to my rescue, even when there were other men around. Nope, I was on my own.</p>
<p>I have to think I&#8217;m not the only one. Ladies, tell me if you&#8217;ve encountered a similar circumstance in your life.</p>
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